Buying and selling only works on these forums based on reputation and trust, so you should only buy from someone who is:
1) a member of this forum for some time (minimum months) before selling anything to anyone
2) is active on the forum. Posts, replies, engages. There should be a history you can scroll back thru to verify that they are really engaged in this community before they show up selling something
keep the adage in mind that “if it’s too good to be true, it’s too good to be true”
Anyone who reaches out, out of the blue, with exactly the thing you want, is new here or has zero history here is a scam. On my other forum (ssforums.com) the mods are ruthless, watching new sign-ups like hawks, forcing WTB and WTS into the right forums so everyone can see and comment. An unexpected DM is a redflag. A willingness to ship a bumper is a giant redflag because absent a freight deal or a access to an incredible corporate Fedex account that they’ll misuse, shipping something of that weight by a retail customer (ie you and me) is prohibitively expensive.
I tried to buy tube doors off of Facebook marketplace from a guy in texas. A legit seller, lots of take off parts, long enough history. I priced all my shipping options, including using my company’s fedex and we’re still talking many hundreds of dollars in shipping.
Unfortunately i think you buy your bumper in person or from a vendor, not from a rando user. Too many flags. Can you afford to be out all the money if it’s a scam?
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