That makes sense. I'm a creature of habit, so having never had it, I probably will forget it exists. I'm used to managing 2H fishtail in my Jeep with the throttle until it's clear I need the traction of 4H, because yeah, like you, fuel savings and reduced wear.
I may also be a menace on the road, since these safety features exist for a reason ... but no accidents yet and I drive speeds appropriate for the conditions.
2021 Oxford White 2-door non-Sas Mid package 2.7L/10-speed Badlands with MIC top
2021 Carbonized Gray 2-door Sas High package 2.7L/10-speed Badlands with MIC top
Keeping the Jeeps: stock '89 XJ and 3.5" lifted '00 XJ on 31s and '89 MJ